I struggled with my weight for years. I’d see the other girls my age walk by in their size 0 (or heck – size 8) jeans silently cursing myself for being a size 12. I ate moderately healthy (you can only be so unhealthy on a gluten free/dairy free diet – but gluten free cookies are still cookies) but for most of my life I felt like I was one of the “bigger” girls, and I didn’t know why.
 
It wasn’t until YEARS later I discovered the concept of Gut Health and how instrumental it is to overall health – including weight. I was trying to get eczema under control, but along the way I dropped 15 pounds, KEPT it off (check out my before & after at the bottom of this post) & these are some tips I learned along the way:
 
1. Eat your veggies first
There’s a term us Health Coaches use called “crowding out.” This is the idea that you don't deprive yourself of a food, but you simply fill yourself up on the healthy foods so you eat less of the unhealthy foods. Finish your veggies first. There’s a reason you weren’t allowed to have dessert until you finished your dinner as a kid!
 
2. Then eat MORE veggies
Your gut LOVES veggies. And the more veggies you eat, the better your body will function. When I started dropping all that weight, I was asked how. My response? “Honestly I’ve just been eating a lot more vegetables lately.” It really can be that easy. Everyone has a different starting point. Acknowledge where you are without judgment and work toward filling half your plate with veggies.
 
3. Make easy, healthy shifts
Get the brown rice/quinoa or veggie noodles (low glycemic!), opt for the sweet potato fries (also low glycemic!), try homemade banana ice cream instead of the pint at the store (just toss a few bananas in a high-speed blender with a splash of liquid! – two ingredients and no refined sugar!) or have a smoothie instead! Don’t be afraid to experiment with foods you already love and see what you can shift to make them better for you. Also remember: the fewer ingredients the better.
 
4. Find your trigger foods
For some people this is easy. You know which foods make you feel bloated or just plain gross, so you avoid them. To identify less obvious culprits, keep track of the food you eat and how you feel right after & 3 hours after you eat it. Is that food serving you or should you find an alternative? In more challenging cases, you may have to outsource – like I did. I found a local Naturopathic Doctor who tested me for food intolerances, and that took out all the guesswork. Don’t be afraid to ask for help!
 
Was this helpful for you? Let me know in the comments below! You can also request to join my new Facebook group for more tips to come – free of charge. <3




5 Comments

  1. Dawn Martini Whitney  03/06/2021 04:59 PM Central
    Helpful tips, Mary!. I love veggies since transitioning to pescatarian early 2018, and eating the veggies first is ingenious. I always have sampled all the food throughout my meal. I am going to switch it up and see what happens. I tend to overlook the obvious sometimes šŸ¤Ŗ
    Mary Benoit AUTHOR  03/06/2021 06:51 PM Central
    Hi Dawn! Iā€™m glad you found these tips to be helpful. It really is the little things sometimes we donā€™t think of! If you have veggies first, and then get MORE veggies to have with the rest of your meal, youā€™ll probably end up having less of everything else! Thatā€™s the ā€œcrowding outā€ effect. Let me know how it goes for you!!
  2. This is great and I love the ease of transition this can represent for me and others!!! I have been stuck at 180+ since after having my first baby more than 7 years ago, even eating relatively healthy and having great health otherwise!
    Mary Benoit AUTHOR  03/03/2021 08:34 PM Central
    Hi Amanda! Thank you so much for reading! Thereā€™s something called a ā€œset pointā€ in your body and itā€™s like a safe zone where your body knows itā€™s a safe weight to keep. For most of my young adult life I was in the upper 170s-lower 180s. That was just my set point. It takes shifts in your lifestyle to change that set point. My set point is now in the mid-upper 150s! Mostly just from incorporating the steps in this blog post! I always thought I was eating relatively healthy too - and I really wasnā€™t wrong! But what I was doing wasnā€™t making MY body happy. I notice a big difference focusing on filling myself with foods that have the least amount of ingredients possible (focusing on whole foods) - and seriously fill up on those veggies! Feel free to reach out (and join my Facebook group!) to keep this conversation going. šŸ˜Š You can do this!šŸ’œ
  3. Marilyn Wodzinski  03/02/2021 10:13 PM Central
    Any tips on yummy and quick ways to eat warm vegetables? I love a warm meal, so a cold salad is not always calling my name. Thank you.
    Mary Benoit AUTHOR  03/03/2021 08:30 AM Central
    Hi Marilyn! Thanks for your comment! Seasonings are really important when it comes to making warm veggies yummy. We used to use Trader Joeā€™s 21 Seasoning Salute a LOT - I highly recommend it! I personally love to lay my veggies out on a cookie sheet, sprinkle walnut oil & sea salt over them and put them in the oven. We also sautĆ© veggies in a skillet on the cook top a lot! Sometimes we boil veggies if weā€™re adding them to some kind of pasta dish, but this isnā€™t my favorite method. I wish there was a faster way to warm veggies up and still keep the nutritional value (we actually got rid of our microwave), but the oven and skillet donā€™t take too terribly long! I plan to add a recipe tab to my website, so keep an eye out for that!
  4. Great read! Thank you for the tips! Iā€™m trying to eat more veggies, just donā€™t know how to cook them. Please keep sharing!
    Mary Benoit AUTHOR  03/03/2021 08:22 AM Central
    Hi, Vicki! So good to see you on here! šŸ˜Š Thank you for your comment - I so appreciate it and I'm so glad you enjoyed it! I will definitely keep sharing, but just to start you off - sautĆ©ed, baked & raw are usually the different ways I eat my veggies. It helps to experiment with one veggie at a time to see how you like it best - and seasonings can help a lot here!! Trader Joe's has something called 21 Seasoning Salute that makes everything taste good. Maybe you could start there! Remember though - it's about progress, not perfection so celebrate the little wins!
  5. Hi! Great video/blog! What you said is right on! Very similar to food fuels. Veggies and more veggies.
    I'm trying to get inspired to eat better. I always feel bloated.
    Mary Benoit AUTHOR  03/03/2021 08:20 AM Central
    Hi, Kelly! Thanks for your comment! šŸ˜Š Veggies are seriously key! There are so many different diets and programs people go on, but really what it comes down to is more fruits and veggies! Remember, it's about progress, not perfection SO go with your intuition and start with small steps! It sounds like you might benefit from tracking what you're eating and how you feel after eating it to see if you can identify certain foods or food groups that may be causing your bloating! Let me know if I can be of any help to you!

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